Avoid being judgmental. Baby rejecting the breast makes mom stress, a signal baby picks up on, making him battle the breast even more fiercely, making her even more stressed, and so on. Offer the breast for comfort any time you see a chance- at the end of a feeding when baby is not hungry, when baby is going to sleep or just waking up, when baby is asleep, and whenever he needs to comfort suck If your baby is actively resisting nursing, then try encouraging comfort nursing after baby is comfortable with skin-to-skin contact. Some ways to encourage teen moms to breastfeed: Suggest that she try breastfeeding for a few days or weeks. Breastfeeding your new baby 8 to 12 times a day can help establish and maintain milk production. (Try this with your palm on their back and fingers behind their ears—babies tend to get peeved if you simply shove their heads from behind.) This may encourage her to breastfeed when she might otherwise never even start. Breastfeeding advice tends to be packaged into neat maxims ― breast is best; babies under 12 months don’t self-wean ― but sayings don’t take into account that every mother and every baby is different. Nipples that are on bottles are different from the shape and feel of a mother’s breast. Learn what makes a good latch, see different breastfeeding holds, and find out how to tell if your baby is getting enough breastmilk. Encourage the baby to hold their mouth the same way for bottle and breast. Once baby opens wide (like a yawn), help them onto your breast by gently—and quickly—pushing against their back. Babies have to use different techniques to latch and draw milk from bottles and breasts. Instead, try (with the above strategies and the calming help of your lactation consultant) taking a more relaxed approach, one that never pushes your breast on your reluctant baby. As Smith put it: “I wouldn’t have a job if it worked perfectly for everybody.” Unless she brings up how long she plans to nurse, you might want to avoid discussing long-term commitments to breastfeeding. Breastfeeding may be natural, but it's also a skill that takes practice. • Help baby out. But this doesn’t mean that more or fewer feedings indicates a problem.